30 Things I Believe at 30

Image by Teri Hofford Photography

HEYY DareDevils!!

I know that booking a Boudoir Photo Session can be intimidating. I mean, here you are, expected to get all vulnerable and start stripping down for some stranger with a camera. YIKES! I totally get it. I want to take a few minutes to introduce myself and get all vulnerable with you!

My name is Tara Smith and I am the owner/photographer of Divulged by Tara Danei. I encourage you to check out the about me page to learn more about me and why I do what I do. I turned the big Dirty Thirty this year so I thought it would be fun to share a few random things about me.

30 Things I believe at 30

1. I believe I am in control of my life and it’s outcome. I can achieve anything if I want it bad enough.

2. I believe no dream is too big. And it’s important to make a plan and put your goals to paper.

3. I believe nobody is entitled to anything. You should always do your best and work hard. You will only get out what you put in.

4. I believe in giving recognition where it’s due and celebrating all accomplishments, big or small.

5. I believe in cutting yourself some slack. Every new day is a chance for a fresh start.

6. I believe one should never stop learning - especially about yourself.

7. I believe in kindness and supporting others. Be considerate and a good person in general.

8. I believe in open, honest communication. And listening to understand. Talk about your feelings. Share both the good and the bad.

9. I believe in keeping an open mind and being accepting of others’ differences.

10. I believe in loving fully always.

11. I believe all is fair in love and war.

12. I believe mistakes and failures are necessary for growth. Give 2nd chances and forgiveness. People can change - for better or worse.

13. I believe time laughing is never wasted and a belly laugh is the sexiest thing you can wear.

14. I believe in embracing who you are. The only opinion that matters is your own. Take notice to how you speak to yourself.

15. I believe in exploration and getting out of your comfort zone.

16. I believe in taking chances and living for maximal experience. Have late night chats, get fresh air, and take long walks outside.

17. I believe in being true to your word and actions will speak even louder.

18. I believe the human body is miraculously complex. We should embrace our so called flaws.

19. I believe there are 2 sides to every story.

20. I believe time is short and there is never enough hours in the day.

21. I believe in the cake is worth it. But never forget about balance and moderation.

22. I believe in the positive effects of cannabis.

23. I believe the news and media should be taken with a grain of salt, it is all biased.

24. I believe social beauty standards are bullshit and mostly an illusion created by a great photographer and a heavy dose of photoshop.

25. I believe in individualism. Everyone can’t fit in a neat, little box. You will never please everyone, so find your people and forget about the rest.

26. I believe in living with intent. You have to take care of your body, mind, and soul - and how to do that is different for every person. Sometimes you even need to be a little selfish to get there. And that is ok too.

27. I believe 2 heads are better than 1.

28. I believe traditional education methods are outdated.

29. I believe music is powerful. It can shape your mood, for better or worse.

30. I believe there is no shame in asking for help. Find your strengths and partner with others that fill in the gaps. But you can only help someone else if they want it.

What beliefs do you try to live by today?