Let’s talk about what happens when you stop waiting for the “perfect time,” stop trying to shrink yourself into some unrealistic version of beauty, and instead decide to celebrate the hell out of the woman you are right now.

[Spoiler alert: magic happens. 🔥]

This babe just wrapped up her fourth boudoir session with me at House of Divulged. Yep. Fourth. Because once you get a taste of what it feels like to step into your power, there’s no going back. She books her sessions around her birthday like the ultimate self-love ritual. “Celebrating yourself is huge for me,” she said—and honestly? SAME.

[Check out her Boudoir Birthday Bash HERE]

But let’s rewind a sec…

Before the session, she confessed something so real it deserves a slow clap:

“I haven’t felt super proud of my body since before Covid. I keep trying to lose fat and tone up, but the fries keep tasting good!”

(Let’s take a moment of silence for how good fries are, okay? nobody wants you to give up fries!)

Despite the insecurities, this session turned out to be her favorite yet. And not because she hit some fitness goal or suddenly felt like a Victoria’s Secret model. No, it was something deeper:

“I felt so sexy even with my insecurities. Both feels are valid.”

Read that again. Because THIS is what it’s about. Boudoir isn’t about pretending your insecurities don’t exist—it’s about realizing they don’t have to run the show.

Nervous? Oh yeah. But she did it anyway.

Like many of my clients, She walked in with nerves swirling:

“I didn’t know which outfit to pair with which set and just wanted to be skinny, dang it!”

(Girl, we’ve ALL been there.)

But then something shifted. The playlist was jamming, the outfits were snatching, and the photos started snapping in. She caught a glimpse on the back of the camera and thought:

“Oh… I actually look good there!”

Let me tell you, that is one of my favorite moments. That first peek that changes everything.

From awkward to 🔥

Was she nervous? Absolutely.

“I’m a nervous wreck during these things... trying not to visibly shake while holding a hard pose.”

(Shout out to every client who’s ever cursed me mid-pose. You’re doing amazing.)

But she leaned into the vulnerability—and the risqué.

“I chose some more risqué outfits and sets this time. I felt so empowered being able to be more vulnerable AND feel sexy doing it.”

That, my friends, is what feeling alive looks like. It's the messy middle, the sweaty palms, the stretch you weren’t sure you could hold—and doing it anyway.

And then came the reveal…

She sat down to view her images and was hit with this:

“I was stunned… GIIIRRRRLLLL I looked good! I felt so empowered.”

And the cherry on top?

“This experience helped me to not be so hard on myself. Being where I am now isn’t something to be ashamed of, and I don’t need to miss out on social events because I’m on a “diet”. I will continue to implement healthy lifestyle actions, but not at the cost of feeling miserable about how I look.”

That’s the shift. The goal isn’t to chase perfection or punish yourself into confidence. It’s to choose joy now, to love yourself as is, and to stop putting your life on hold waiting to “deserve” it.

Long-term glow-up

After four sessions, she’s noticed more than just new poses or sets. She’s seen a whole transformation in her self-worth:

“My self-confidence from my 1st session to my most recent has drastically changed. It’s a huge investment in yourself.”

We’re not just snapping pretty pics here—we’re flipping the narrative. We’re taking back the power. And we’re doing it in lace and lashes.

So if you’ve been stalking my page and thinking “maybe someday”...

She has some final words for you:

“Girl DO IT!!! What is there to regret from this experience?! This will change you! You can always say “I’ll do it when __” but documenting yourself as you are right now is worth the leap! You’ll only regret not doing it sooner, I promise!”

This is your sign. Book the session. Celebrate yourself. Wear the damn lingerie. Let the playlist blast, the lights flash, and the confidence build.

Because you? You deserve to feel this good.

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🎉 Let’s make you feel alive.