5 Questions About Couples Boudoir You’re Dying to Ask | Kansas City Couples Boudoir Photographer

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I love being able to capture the intimate connection you share with your special someone. A Couple’s intimate boudoir session is a wonderful way to step out of your comfort zone with your partner, bringing you closer together, while capturing your intimate relationship. Divulged by Tara Danei is an all inclusive studio that does not discriminate against race, gender, or sexual orientation. You are all welcome here!

There are many questions surrounding a couples session that are unique to that experience. I have answered the top 5 questions I get asked below.


What is included in the Experience?

Couples sessions include all of the same things a regular session includes and depends on the experience you select. For each set in your session, you will get a variety of a few individual images of each partner and images together.

The daredevil experience also includes professional hair and make up for one partner - generally the female party. If you want to include hair and make up for more than one person, additional fees will apply.

check out the experience options below for a full list of what is included in each.

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What can I expect during the session?

Essentially, the process for a couples session is the same as for individuals as well!

Once you arrive at the scheduled time of your session, we will start with hair and make up, if that is included in your experience. This is provided with the DareDevil experience and is for 1 partner, unless you add it on for anyone else being photographed during the session.

after hair and make up, we will go over wardrobe options for the sets you select and I will have you try some items on to make sure you look your best!

we will then get right into shooting. I will start with Individual portraits of each partner, and then pose you together. No stress! I am a very directed photographer and will tell you everything you need to do down to where to put your hands and what expression I’m looking for. You do not need any experience whatsoever. I will tweak every detail to perfection.

the first 15 minutes are the most nerve wracking - full transparency, you will feel a little awkward initially. It’s normAl, we will push through it swiftly.

Our main goal for The first few minutes of a couples session is to warm up to each other - not necessarily to get the most jaw dropping images, yet. I generally start with something modest and comfortable for this reason.

After that, it’s smooth sailing and nerves typically slide away. Expect to have fun during your session together! We will laugh a lot - usually at my expense. :)

check out the link below to learn more about the full session process.

What if he gets a little too “excited?!”

It happens, but not as often as you would think. most poses I will put you in only look sexual and wouldn’t lend themselves very well to the actual act. Camera tricks!!! Nerves also play into effect here generally.


but let’s say it does happen. it’s All good in the hood my friends. I will do one of 3 things. Either ignore it and carry on like nothin happened. Or a little extra bulge certainly never made a photo worse - we will take advantage and capture the extra sex appeal. Finally, do not hesitate to ask for a drink or bathroom break if things get Too heated during your session and you need a moment to calm down.

just communicate with me. :) think of me like you would a doctor. I deal with these things on a regular basis, it is nothing to be embarrassed about. if you have a preference on which method I take should this “pop up” [🤣 I couldn’t resist], let’s discuss it during the preparation stages leading up to your session.

Are you going to see our junk?

this is totally up to you. I do not photograph genitalia, but implied nude is fair game if you are up for it. Implied nude means you will be photographed naked, but the bits will be strategically concealed in the final image.

If you opt for implied nude, yes, I might see your junk. however, I am pretty respectful in this regard and try to look away if we are changing poses where you might expose yourself.

again. Think of me as you would your doctor. I’ve seen a lot of people’s junk and am basically immune to it. I will carry on as if you were completely clothed.

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So we have this fantasy…what are your limits on what you will or will not photograph?

i want your final images to be a reflection of your true intimate relationship together. We will have conversations leading up to your session about what sort of things you and your partner enjoy together - Anything from cooking breakfast together or that special kink or fantasy you might want to incorporate.

As a general note, my couples sessions lean more sensual in nature than sexual. I also do not shoot genitalia, only implied nude [and exposed nip If you want me to]..

I do not allow actual sex acts during the session. This includes actual intercourse, oral, Hand, anal, toys, or anything in between.

For sanitary purposes, bodily fluids are off limits - including but not limited to semen, blood, urine, and feces.

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as always don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any additional questions!