Man I love the first signs of Spring! I am no stranger to winter depression, so when Spring is around the corner and the wildflowers start showing up - I instantly start to feel relief that longer, warmer days are on the way!

One day when I was pulling in our driveway, I noticed that these purple wild flowers had formed a large patch right next to our house. SWOON. [SIDE STORY - I used to call these clovers - but apparently that is incorrect - Henbit? I think is what I discovered they are actually called - someone correct me if I am wrong about this.] The second I saw them - I started brainstorming a photoshoot in my head - imagining a gorgeous babe rolling around in a sea of purple. I immediately put out a request in my BoudieBassador Exclusive group looking for someone available in my free time that week.

Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to line up my schedule with any of the gals in the group that week. I knew the patch wouldn’t last very long and there was no chance I was going to miss this opportunity - so I did what I always do - and hopped in front of my own camera! I really love using self portraits as a way to express myself creatively, try new shit, and push myself as an artist. I ALWAYS learn something new. [This time - that lesson was to check if the neighbors are outside moving hay BEFORE you strip naked….bahahaha…live and learn right?! Neighbors - you are welcome!]

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Clawfoot Tub, Self Portrait

ChatGPT Describes the Life of a Boudoir Photographer

Clawfoot Tub, Self Portrait

I love an all-in-good-fun chatGPT prompt. So I JUMPED at the prompt “Describe a day in the life of my future self.” I was not prepared for the emotions this brought up.

Clawfoot Tub, Self Portrait

Self Portrait, Bedroom Set, White Sheets, Book Review, Self Love Journey

The Four Agreements: A Boudoir Photographer's Review for Empowerment and Confidence

Self Portrait, Bedroom Set, White Sheets, Book Review, Self Love Journey

At its core, "The Four Agreements" is about learning to break free from the limiting beliefs and expectations of society, and embracing your true self. This is a message that resonates deeply with me as a boudoir photographer, as I see firsthand the impact that societal pressure can have on a person's self-esteem and body image.

Self Portrait, Bedroom Set, White Sheets, Book Review, Self Love Journey

Self Portrait, Sex Swing, Candlelight Set, Client Closet

2 Ways to Instantly Make Your Boudoir Photos Hotter | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

Self Portrait, Sex Swing, Candlelight Set, Client Closet

Remember these Self Portraits I shared last October over on social media?! This amped up Sex Swing Set was the theme for last years Halloween Limited Edition Sessions. I loved the simple spooky vibe it gave without being overly themed.

The thing is, I loved this set so much, I regularly come back to it any time a client wants to really “Sex Up” the Sex Swing! Many clients don’t realize before coming into the studio just how versatile my sets can be!

HERE ARE 2 WAYS WE CAN INSTANTLY ADD MORE HEAT TO ANY BOUDOIR PHOTOSHOOT SET

Self Portrait, Sex Swing, Candlelight Set, Client Closet

Nashville, Self Portrait, Widow Robe, The Vault

BOUDOIR SELF PORTRAITS AT THE DIVE MOTEL AND SWIM CLUB | NASHVILLE, TN

Nashville, Self Portrait, Widow Robe, The Vault

NOW - YOU KNOW I WASN’T GOING TO BOOK THIS FUN ASS ROOM AND NOT TAKE SELF PORTRAITS! SINCE I DROVE TO NASHVILLE, I MAY HAVE OVER PACKED IN THE WARDROBE DEPARTMENT AND ENDED UP PHOTOGRAPHING 3 DIFFERENT LOOKS IN THE ROOM.

Nashville, Self Portrait, Widow Robe, The Vault

LESOTM, Limited Edition Session, Self Portrait, Client Closet

LIMITED EDITION SESSION OF THE MONTH | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

LESOTM, Limited Edition Session, Self Portrait, Client Closet

Now offering Exclusive Limited Edition Creative Phootshoots every month of 2023 in my rural Kansas City Studio. January’s theme includes fun lighting and metallic fringe curtains to help add a little sparkle to your New Year!

LESOTM, Limited Edition Session, Self Portrait, Client Closet

Self Portrait, Client Closet, Nude, Implied Nude

Turning Off a Negative Inner Critic - May Self Portrait Session | KANSAS CITY BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHER

Self Portrait, Client Closet, Nude, Implied Nude

I turn off my inner critic by acknowledging it and actively fighting against it. REGULARLY. I’m not perfect and I don’t love every part of myself - and THAT’S OK! When I feel down about one area, I acknowledge the feeling, and then don’t give it another ounce of my mental energy - usually by diversion or distraction. I may not love my boobs, but I do love my eyes, my smile, and my creative mind. So I think about that instead. Seems so simple really. And honestly, over the last 5ish years, it has gotten much easier than it started out. Practice makes perfect right?

Self Portrait, Client Closet, Nude, Implied Nude

Shower, cannabis, 420, Self Portrait, Topless

April Showers - Self Portrait Boudoir Session | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

Shower, cannabis, 420, Self Portrait, Topless

I couldn’t decide if I wanted to do a shower theme for April or a 420 theme…and then I remembered I’m an adult and can smoke a bong in the shower if I want to. So here we are!

Shower, cannabis, 420, Self Portrait, Topless

Self Portrait, Nude, Topless, Implied Nude, Set Add On

Gold Foil Boudoir Session - March Self Portraits | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

Self Portrait, Nude, Topless, Implied Nude, Set Add On

I was so excited to try out this gold foil concept for March’s self portrait session. I’ve had this saved in my inspiration folder for ohhhh several years now but just hadn’t tackled it yet. March was the perfect opportunity to give it a go for a nod to St. Patrick’s day without being too obvious about it. I love the combination of green and gold!

Self Portrait, Nude, Topless, Implied Nude, Set Add On

Self Portrait, Destination Session, Colorado, Vintage Vixen, Nude, Implied Nude, Topless

Nude or Nah | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

Self Portrait, Destination Session, Colorado, Vintage Vixen, Nude, Implied Nude, Topless

It is nerve wracking to strip naked in front of someone else, let alone knowing there will be photos taken. I totally get it. But that is precisely why you should do it. Something powerful happens when you let your guard down and are vulnerable in a safe space with someone you can trust. Someone that is not going to make you feel less than. But instead is going to hype you the fuck up and make you feel seen and empowered. A person that is going to stand next to you in your most vulnerable, insecure state and instead of criticizing says “YOU’RE A BAD BITCH!” Let me be that person for you.

Self Portrait, Destination Session, Colorado, Vintage Vixen, Nude, Implied Nude, Topless

Valentine's Day, Bedroom Set, Red Sheets, Self Portrait

The Hallmark Holiday - February Self Portrait Session | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer

Valentine's Day, Bedroom Set, Red Sheets, Self Portrait

I tell my clients all the time that the best time to do a boudoir session is when you aren’t feeling your best. And this week I practiced what I preach and was reminded just how powerful a session can be for your confidence.

These images still aren’t exactly what I hoped for - and I’m admittedly still a little butt hurt that my inspo didn’t work out. But I love them all the same. I feel beautiful and fierce when I look at them. And that is exactly the point of everything I hope to achieve in my business.

Valentine's Day, Bedroom Set, Red Sheets, Self Portrait

Rolling in Wildflowers | Kansas City Boudoir Photographer